Question by Chris M: What it be” wrong “to befriend a married woman?
Well I’m a 19yr old male and over the past few months I’ve been going to physical therapy for a knee injury, while their I’ve become alittle close with a 29yr old woman.
We have a lot in common and have great conversations about anything and everything, she seems like a long lost best friend and I feel a care for her,
She is a newlywed though, and I’m not sure if its appropriate for me to ask her for an email or something just to check in with eachother periodically,
I might be a bit dishonest if I said there wasn’t some mutual attraction,but my intentions are well…
Our sessions have ended, but on the last one she told me that if I find myself in the area to stop by and talk to her..it was alittle sad saying goodbye..if I do see her again would it be “acceptable” by societal standards to ask her for email or number? Or is that a no no?
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Since you have the right intentions, and she’s OLDER than you, it shouldn’t be a problem…
However if I was you I’d try to find her on a social networking site, and talk through there and ask her for her email.
It would be wrong if you had the wrong intentions. Nothing else. As a single male I am close friends to many married women, though it is usually because I lack a significant mother figure, which would explain why IO desire female friends over male ones. I do not have romantic or sexual feelings for any of them, though I did for a few of them in the past before they got hitched.
I recommend you just be friends for a while and also get to know her husband as well. I got to know my female friends’ husbands through my close friendships with their wives.
You can always just stick to Facebook banter then an email.
Go for it! Just don’t bang her.
Married people need friends like normal people!